15458354908_50b1ea8ab9_o.jpgThere are two major dates in our lives. The day we are born and the day we die. The question is what do we do in between those dates.

I recently lost someone very close to me and I miss her everyday. I’m constantly thinking about how much her life impacted not only her immediate family and friends but people that only knew her through her family and friends. As I got the opportunity to spend time with her before she died I started thinking about how much she means to me and how much of a legacy she was going to leave behind. And then I started thinking about what kind of legacy I wanted to leave behind.

Everyday, whether we know it or not, our lives are affecting someone else. Just as my brother said the other day we encounter people at the grocery store. When we are filling up our tanks. When we drop off our kids at school. Even when we are driving down the highway. What kind of impression do we want to leave with them? Princess Diana was a in this world for a short time but her legacy of humanitarianism is being lived out through her children and prayerfully her grandchildren. Martin Luther King Jr., Medger Evers, Malcolm X all spoke out against injustice and while their methods were all different their ideals are still being spoken about today. Jesus encountered thousands of people in His three year ministry and everyone’s life was changed as a result. People’s lives are still being changed because of His encounters. I don’t want my life to be “she was born and then she died”. Nobody’s life should just be “they were born and then they died”. Everyone should have more than just a footnote to put between the dashes.

I feel very blessed to know that I’ve been able to touch the lives I’ve already touched but I still have more living to do and more lives to touch. When I die I want people to know that Jesus loves them. That I love them and that they matter. I don’t need to know personally everyone that I touch but I do want to know that my six degrees of separation doesn’t just stop there. Paul wasn’t satisfied with just touching a few people with Jesus’s message of salvation-he wanted to touch the world.

My aunt poured a lot of who she was into me and I’m a better person for it. So this post is dedicated to her and the legacy she leaves behind in her daughters, her husband, her grandchild, her brother, her sister and the countless others she has touched. Thank you for your life Mama Barb. I miss you everyday.


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4 thoughts on “Dashes

  1. This is a beautiful tribute in honor of Barb’s memory. I pray that mnds and hearts will be touched as mine was. When I was reading it, I kept thinking about something that God has given me recently; that He has created us for purpose; His purpose. We are all here on this earth to fulfill His plan and purpose . As Christians when we encounter people in our daily lives I pray that we will not be ashamed to share the Gospel of Jesus with them, and show them His love and kindness. We should show them patience, forgiveness, joy and peace. After all, this life we live isn’t about what we want or what we think, but we are here to do the will of our Father.


  2. What a lovely tribute to your Mama Barb, I’m sure she’s very proud of how much love you are sharing.

    I love the idea of filling in the dashed between birth and death and agree, that we need to make sure that there is some kind of legacy left from our time here. Definitely something to be mindful about.

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  3. This is beautiful. She served her purpose and will always be remembered. Each day that God bless us with is another opportunity to fulfill our purpose and bring Glory to Him. As Christians
    what is between our ” dashes ” should do that as well.

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